Neosporin

I was going to begin this post with a quote about fate. Then, I realized I didn't agree with the first ten I read so I said, forget the quotes, let me just start.

I didn't agree with the quotes for the purposes of this post because they all downed fate, saying people can't allow fate to control them, people make their own decisions, etc etc. And, I mean maybe I agree with that when it comes to others matters of life, but this is free LOVE. Not free LIFE.

When it comes to matters of the heart, sometimes (well, most times), fate helps us. The forces beyond our control and maybe even the forces within our control at times, make way for a better result in the long run. Breakups, goodbyes, heartache, and hurt don't ever feel good when they happen. They sting, they bite, they burn. We cry, we scream, we sulk. No matter what the case, sooner or later, we all have that retrospect moment when we realize whatever happened for whatever reason was meant to happen and we're better, stronger, wiser, because of it.

Some people refer to this idea as time heals all wounds. But, sometimes I don't think time heals all wounds. I think we heal our own wounds and time is just the neosporin.

Love freely,
tY