So, I've wanted to blog about interracial dating on this thing for such a long time. But, I always figured I wasn't cool enough. And, then I said, damnit it's 2010, this is my blog, and I will do what I want.
A thought has plagued the back of my mind for awhile and I'm going to be honest: it's the sadness of black men who only date non-black women.
Without going into a bunch of racial history and stereotypes and all of that pish posh, I will just say that in the end, it only hurts oneself to be close-minded about what race or even ethnicity you choose to date. It always makes me laugh when people condemn a person for only dating members of their same race yet think it is so excusable if a person only dates members outside of their race. We are so concerned with being politically correct that we call it "personal preference" if a black man only dates non-black women yet we call it ignorance if a black man only dates black women.
This is nonsense and our world drives me insane.
ANYONE who chooses to only date a certain type of person whether that means the person must be the same race or a different race is narrow-minded and selling them short of the colorless beauty that is love.
If you are a man, you have met qualification number one in my book. That is all that matters.
I think it's time for our world to stop trying so incredibly to hard to be politically correct and to instead equip itself with some common sense and come correct.
Love freely,
tY
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