Samantha Jones: I'm gonna say the one thing you aren't supposed to say. I love you…but I love me more. I’ve been in a relationship with myself for 49 years and that’s the one I need to work on. (Sex and the City movie)
We don't think of ourselves as "relationships." But the same effort, love, and attention we put into loving someone else when we are dating can be put into ourselves when we are single. It's easy to lose ourselves in the hustle and bustle of daily life or the search for a soulmate or even in a relationship. Sometimes we forget what makes us laugh or what's important to us or what makes us who we are.
So, if you're single in the beginning of this new semester, maybe it's a great time to focus on a relationship: the one you have with yourself. Do what makes you happy; don't find someone to make you happy.
Love freely,
tY
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