N--never
I--interesting
C--can't
E--engage
Nice isn't the first word I would use to describe myself. So, when talk about me getting together with a "nice" guy surfaced, I wasn't really enthused.
In theory, nice guys are good to have. Being sweet and chivalrous and all of those things are cute and every woman wants them, even if they don't admit it. But, does nice get boring after awhile?
I'm not one to ever envision my ideal man...or wedding...or anything pertaining to romance and my future because it's unrealistic and corny. BUT, when I think of someone who would keep me interested for the long haul, I think of someone who challenges me. Someone who isn't afraid to argue or debate or disagree. I wouldn't want a yes-man. And nice and challenging are rare. Existent but rare.
Having good intentions, being sensitive and open-minded and compromising...those are certainly things to be valued in a person. That doesn't necessarily mean a person is nice and maybe that's a good thing.
Love freely,
tY
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