Alright, listen. I'm going to start talking about sex. This blog is my child. I own it. I rant and rave about it to strangers. I sometimes neglect it (parents shouldn't do that but um they probably do) and I give it all of my attention and love, most of the time. So, I've decided to start talking about sex.
I haven't breached the topic of sex explicitly because it's a pretty sticky subject (ooo, no pun intended) for me, for you, and probably even for Obama. (Sorry, he was in my dream last night...I was babysitting his children...anyway, I digress). And, I like writing about love, this universal intangible thing that's either our best friend or our worst enemy. And, love will always be my first priority on this thing so don't get too excited because you saw the word es ee ex.
But, I got to thinking that sex and love go hand in hand. And, THEN I got to thinking...well, do they?
Welcome to today's blog post, kids.
I think this idea that sex and love go hand in hand varies from person to person, relationship to relationship, men to women, etc. I won't give you my personal take on this at the moment because I don't want to skew this post too much. I've just observed that more and more, my generation (that I love to harp on so much) is trying to become masters of the casual hookup, completely negating the idea that sex is some powerful, earth shattering entity between two people who are crazy in love. I really don't think people my age go out on dates anymore. Goodness gracious.
Whether or not you think sex and love should go hand in hand is your business. I've heard stories on the radio about people who hook up the first night they meet and 3 years later, get married. I believe they are an exception to the rule but you are entitled to your opinion.
I will leave you with this thought. Sex. Love. Whether the two entities are married or not, know which one you're after. If it's the latter, you may have to hold out on the former for a bit. And, well, if it's the former...knock yourself out.
Love freely,
tY
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