We've all been there. You get into a relationship and that person is ooey gooey wonderfulness when they are with you. Then, all of a sudden he gets around his friends and it's like the person you dated and smothered with kisses has vanished. Who is this asshole?
If someone tells you they are the same person all the time with everyone, that person is lying. Call their bluff.
While the core of who we are should remain solid, we do change based on our environment and the people in it. So, what happens when your significant other seems to be a completely different person outside of your relationship bubble?
The relationship bubble is a beautiful warm yummy place. Relationships soften us. They make us vulnerable and they make us change. And, as great as the relationship bubble is, it's also important to see how your significant other functions when they are not just with you because chances are, the person will not always be with you. If you don't like what you see, address it. And, if it doesn't change...step.
Easier for you to make moves than to try and change someone.
So, go to that family BBQ. Go to the best friend's wedding. Get to know your boobear outside of the cuddle sessions in the boudoir.
Love freely,
tY
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