Buffer zone

I'm proposing a theory.

I once heard in Sex and the City that we get one great love in life, maybe two if we are lucky.

My theory?

You get a first love and a soulmate. Everything (and everyone) else in between the first love and the soulmate are just buffers. Just moments and experiences preparing you for what will be the most earth shattering love of your life.

Sometimes my posts can be cynical, skeptical, sarcastic, harsh, or all of the above. Despite this fact, I wouldn't devote 92 posts (almost to 100!) to talking about a little thing called love. Guess I'm a sucker for it sometimes.

So, if you're in the buffer zone right now whether that means you are dealing with a complete loaf, getting over a complete loaf, liking someone you don't think you will ever love, or just learning about yourself,, i say, buff, baby, buff. And if you've found your soulmate, well then, lucky you (oops, there goes that sarcasm.)

Love freely,
tY