Now What?

Why do I always blog in the wee hours of the morning? I think I'm a vampire.

I've decided being single has its phases just like being in a relationship. And, they kind of mirror one another. The beginning of a relationship is new and everything is roses. When you return to being single, you're like "Whoa, this is what I was missing!?" :cue drunken makeouts and other sins:

As you move on in the relationship, you have some fights, things become routine, and you have to decide if you're either going to work to make this one better or phase it out of your life.

After a few months of debauchery being single, you hit a slump where you're over the Samantha Jones moments and you miss curling up in a ball next to someone. Now it's time to decide if you can truly devote yourself to being by yourself or if you are going to whine about it. Or, well, if you're just going to continue the debauchery which always works, too.

I guess what I'm saying is that no matter what situation you're in, it's not easy for any of us. Life has its way of spiky haired white boy style serving us (if you don't get the reference, you obviously don't know of my favorite movie of all time, You Got Served) and we have to roll with the punches and decide where our efforts should be focused.

Whatever you do, wherever stage you're in...either go big a la Theresa Guidice's hair or go home.

Love freely,
tY